婚姻故事 Marriage Story8.5

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• 来自网友【放双手骑单车】的评论片中讲完的部分： This woman’s at her hairdresser’s, and she says, “I’m going to Rome on holiday.” He says, “Oh really, what airline are you taking?” She says, “Alitalia.” He says, “Alitalia, are you crazy? That’s terrible, don’t take that.” He says, “Where are you gonna stay?” She says, “I’m gonna stay at The Hassler.” “The Hassler! What, are you kidding? They’re renovating the Hassler. You’ll hear hammering all night long. You won’t sleep. What are you gonna see?” She says, “I think I’m going to try to go to the Vatican.” “The Vatican? You’ll be standing in line all day long.” 被打断没讲完的部分： So she goes to Rome, she comes back, and the hairdresser says, “How was it?” She says, “It was a great trip, it was wonderful.” “How was the Vatican?” “Wonderful, we happened to meet the Pope.” “You met the Pope?” “Yeah, and he spoke to me.” “What did he say to you?” “He said, ‘Where’d you get that fucking haircut?'”
• 来自网友【momo】的评论这部电影前前后后看了三四遍，每次感悟都不一样。第一次是23年年初，和当时的对象远程连麦看，当时我还不知道感情会结束、恋人会分手、婚姻会终结，幻想分手也该体面告别，根本不理解男女主为何会闹成那样，甚至觉得剧情枯燥无聊，中途睡过去好几回，分了几次才看完。第二次是去年十一，和当时的女友经历漫长的吵架、冷战后总算是又敞开心扉深入谈了一次，彼此承诺都更包容一些，不再计较孰是孰非，感情进入23年难得的平和期。我出差磕坏了牙，回来没心情吃饭一个人蜗居在家又打开了这部电影，生活中有了类似经历后能理解里面男女主的争吵与无奈，但还是觉得结局不该如此，只要俩人还相爱，问题总能解决的，为什么不再努力一下包容对方呢？今年又经历了很多事情，前几天第三次点开这部电影，才真正理解男女主为什么一定要离婚。当爱情的闪光点逐渐消失，俩人都开始向外拓展寻找自身价值，对内争夺关系的话语权，甚至开始嫉恨对方，尤其是那段歇斯底里的吵架戏，彼此用最难听的话攻击对方，举例各种细节去证明对方是个混蛋，而自己是个无辜的受害者。发泄过后，两人又会收起尖刺相拥在一起，但隔阂早已无法平复。电影最后，女主仍会为男主系鞋带，正如每一段感情结束后，我会选择释怀曾经的伤害和欺骗，毕竟我们曾经相爱过，希望你们未来一切都好。合适比相爱更重要。